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Empowering Principals & Leaders to THRIVE

BE SLACKER BETTER

by Steve Zonnevylle / 19th February 2024

THE STORY

The other day I found myself viewing an old clip on line from comedian and TV personality Miranda Hart. Some of you may know her show, “Miranda”.

Miranda was talking about life back in lockdown and the pressures, stresses and uncertainties that this created for everyone. And then she quoted a guy called Dave Hollis which really took my liking;

“Hear this: in the rush to return to normal, use this time to consider which parts of normal are worth rushing back to.”

Bang! Wow! What a great thing to say. And on he went; 

“If things go back exactly as they were we will have missed the opportunity to take the good from this bad.

The gift nobody’s asked for is sitting here for us all to open — an opportunity to do some housekeeping in where we focus, who we spend time with, what we consume, how we work, what matters and most importantly what doesn’t.

Take notes. We’re getting a lesson we cannot forget when things return to normal.”

I liked what this guy Dave was saying. 

On his Facebook page, he describes himself in this way; “Every day Dude, In love with Rachel Hollis, Dad x4 Dominating the roads, NYTimes best selling author”

I like this description greatly. I don’t even know the guy but in a very small precis he’s told me he’s not a big noter. He’s just an every day guy who loves his wife and family. Oh, and he’s a NY Times best selling author – but that bit comes last.

It resonated with me because it’s essentially what I have been promoting for a long time now. And, given that lockdown is now well and truely in the rearview mirror, I can't help but wonder if we missed a geat opporturnity back then. Still, it's not too late to do something now!

We spend so much of our time in our professional lives leading, sorting, being accountable, mentoring, writing screeds of words, connecting, relating and being “fully there”. By the time it’s time for our other life, when we leave school each day, there’s so often little left but to collapse on the couch and nap away the evening in a state of exhaustion. At present I imagine that our professional Facebook pages would all read like mine; Steve Zonnevylle, Educator. Full Stop.

I want to be more like David Hollis’ Facebook precis. I want any description of me to start with the most important things. I want to be proud to be an educator, but I don’t want it to define me. As I’ve said in previous posts, I want my role and roles in education to be a part of who I am, but not all of who I am. 

For most, using the words ‘slacker’ and ‘educator’ in the same sentence is akin to blasphemy! How can we even begin to think of being slack!! How dare we!

So what is the point that I'm trying to make, and how does it relate to Dave Hollis’ invitation of not rushing back to normal, given now that we really did ALL rush back to normal, pretty damn fast after the lockdowns?

Being Slacker Better is a call to arms. And when better than now, when we all have a bit of time on our hands at the beginning of a school year, to think things through and to start to consider what a new normal might look like.

I'm certainly not advocating becoming slack in the conventionally accepted way.

Instead, I want you to step up and look at the way you do your job. Take time to look at the habits you’ve bought into the role over time.  Take time to assess the ways that you want to live your life.

Big questions indeed.

Take time to look at some of the things that you do now, that you personally would consider slack if you did them differently.

Don’t worry about the other side of the coin – those things that other people would consider slack if you did them differently. This is your journey, not theirs. 

For example: 

  • What if you didn’t write so much in your Board Report? (Einstein once said  that if you can’t explain it simply, then you don’t actually understand what you’re talking about.)
  • What if you worked at home two days a term?
  • What if you left school at 4:00pm on those quieter days?
  • What if you closed the door of your office and made yourself unavailable more often?
  • What if you spent more time in classrooms and felt confident that administration trivia always has a habit of getting done tomorrow, or the next day?
  • What if you viewed your role as the key relationship maker/connector instead of the key educator?
  • What if you didn’t have so many meetings?
  • What if you looked to maximise your own talents within the school setting more?
  • What if you decided not to sweat the small stuff?
  • What would happen if …………..?


The list goes on, and is limited only by the questions you ask yourself. In the end, Being Slacker Better is less about some internalised concept of slackness, and more about finding those things that are actually the most important and getting to them more often by being efficient. 

With efficiency comes time. Not time to do more at school, but time to do more in the rest of your life. This is a very important point. It underlines the premise that being an educator is part of your life, not your whole life.

So to paraphrase Dave Hollis; in the rush to return to normal, let’s use this time to consider which parts of normal are worth rushing back to and change those things that are not.

Be Slacker Better!

So what?

Being Slacker Better sounds lovely, but I just don't have the time!

It's a common sort of complaint. We find ourselves in such a continual state of busyness that we totally fail to comprehend that it is our very own selves that allow this state to continue.

It's all down to you and the choices you make.

For me, it got so bad that I ended up having to design a poster of ideas that I could refer to as a reminder of things I could be up to instead of being busy busy busy. Even writing these words down now seems a little bonkers, but yet this is where I found myself.

This is my Lime Thickshake plan. (I'm a sucker for Lime Thickshakes!). It is the plan that I stuck to the lid of my laptop and when times seemed to be a little bit quieter, especially during those really tough times, I'd look at my list and choose something from it to do - to give myself a little bit of slack. Worked a charm!

Now, obviously, this list is personal to me. These things all mean something to me uniquely. And that's the point. My slackness is also a personal thing.

Do you have a Lime Thickshake plan?

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About the Author:

Steve is an articulate, creative, and competent professional. He values the fostering of positive relationships and revels in working within team environments. The majority of his working career has been in leadership positions in Education. He has nearly 30 years of Primary Principal experience in the New Zealand school setting. He brings to Thrive a multitude of skills that cross over successfully in many working environments.His passions include music, writing and running.

However the thing he loves most is connecting with fellow human beings and working alongside them in order to support them in being the very best that they can. Steve is passionate about Principalship. He believes that being a Principal is one of the most important and privileged vocations on the planet. However he feels saddened that the role now appears to have become so complex and vast that quality people no longer see it as a long term career like he was able to enjoy, and instead shine bright and then burn out far too soon.

He sees this as a perfect conduit to express his own skills and expertise in a manner that will guide and support Principals so that they too can continue to grow in a positive and healthy manner for many, many years.

Steve Zonnevylle- Learning Coach at Spectrum Online Academy

Steve Zonnevylle